<p>Communication is the hallmark and existence of society.&nbsp; One of the signs of a healthy family is the ability to articulate and maintain positive communication with each other.&nbsp; As a matter of fact, the ability to communicate is critical&nbsp; both in families, and every relationship. However, this requires time and practice. Communication is the building block that will facilitate a healthy marriage to stand the test and storms of life. Commuication is necessary for survival and where there is no communication there is no life, it is just that simple.&nbsp; <br /> &nbsp;Families as well as lovers must take the time to invest and learn the components of positive comunication to maintain life. Each person must take responsibility for learning these skills and then practice it daily. Conflict is inevitable in every relationship, but using the proper communication tools endless pain and emotional suffering&nbsp;can be diffisued. <strong>&quot;It is all about communication, that is where the journey starts</strong>.&quot;</p> http://www.doctornorma.ca/Monthly-Articles.page?ArticleID=52369 2010-09-06T22:46:02.273972Z Marriage is a life long process that can be enjoyed when the foundations are stable.(Dr Norma Barnett). Statistics reveal that there is a high rate of divorce and most Canadian marriages will end before the 30th anniversary. In the USA the divorce rate (2005) per (1,000) people was 3.6 the lowest rate since 1970.<br /> Research has also revealed that premarital counseling helps to retard the divorce bug.<br /> <br /> Premarital counseling&nbsp; fosters a happy marriage. It is a preventative measure that is taken to ensure success. The average couple that participates in any premarital program tends to experience a more enriched marriage life in the long term.&nbsp; <strong>IT&nbsp;IS&nbsp;A&nbsp;WISE&nbsp;INVESTMENT</strong>.<br /> <br /> The marriage institution prepares children for the broader society.&nbsp; The home is where children learn<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; * Socialization<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; * Self-esteem<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; *Self-worth<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; * Manners<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; * Love<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; * Acceptance<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; *Trust<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; * Harmony<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; * Affection<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; *Intimacy<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; * Conflict resolution<br /> <br /> This template will give the children in your home the tools for success in their own lives. This gift starts at home. Divorce hurts everyone and the children are the most vulnerable. Children do not understand divorce, or different mothers and fathers. It can sometimes be very confusing and affects every aspect of their lives; including their abiliy to learn, make friends, communicate and develop their own interpersonal relationship.&nbsp; Author Dr N. Barnett Published October 11-2009. <br /> <br /> <br /> Here are some questions to work at.' Why do you think marriages are so unstable and thready&quot;?<br /> &quot;Who do you think is responsible for the high rate of divorce&quot;?&nbsp; 'Do you think it is the individuals' upbringing or is it society or a combination of both?<br /> <br /> <br /> http://www.doctornorma.ca/Monthly-Articles.page?ArticleID=35108 2010-09-06T22:46:02.273972Z 9/6/2010 6:46:02 PM http://www.doctornorma.ca/ 9/6/2010 6:46:02 PM nessia@shaw.ca